Happiness redux

by Tommy

I was starting this post out by saying that I know I’ve talked about this before, except I realized that it’s almost been a year since I’ve done a happiness post. It’s not that I want to be defined by them or anything, but this does need to be said.

Too many people believe that happiness is lying on a secluded beach or having a dream job where you get paid a million dollars an hour. Therefore, many people will make sweeping statements like ‘I’ve never been happy’ or something equally pessimistic.

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Whether or not you’re happy, or have been happy recently, depends on what constitutes happy for you. It’s totally an individual thing – some people think that happiness is nigh on unattainable.

“Happiness” is one of the most relative terms out there. How long does this feeling last? A fleeting smile, or a week long holiday? Are you grinning euphorically for the entire 7 days?

In my opinion, from observations I’ve made, happiness isn’t recognized for what it is. I think that happiness is anything that makes you happy for a time. I won’t name how long in something so arbitrary as minutes or hours, because it depends on the person.

I think we need to recognize the small things throughout our day that make us happy and jump upon them and allow them to make us happy.

Julie :)
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Happiness is everyday things. It’s something totally attainable for everyone.

Below is a song from You’re a Good Man Charlie Brown called Happiness, which gave me the thought of this post.
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Happiness is morning and evening,
Daytime and nighttime too.
For happiness is anyone and anything at all
That’s loved by you.